Pros And Cons Of Dating A Gospel Artiste

Dating is not just a walk in the park I would say as it involves understanding the other person and also SACRIFICE.

 

I don’t mean sacrifice of father Abraham I mean you have to leave things that you mostly like at times for the sake of your partner. What about dating a gospel artiste ?

A gospel artiste/minister is not easy either as many people think as it involves a lot than what one would have anticipated.

Advantages/Pros Of Dating A Gospel Artiste

Word Of GOD

The word of GOD guides the gospel singer and looking at that it would be quite easier to have guidance in the relationship. With GOD as the center of the relationship it would be easier to overcome the temptations in life.

You will also have a strong background in the word of GOD as it will be your daily food.

Celebrity Status

One thing that you can not avoid is that the artiste/minister is a popular member in the society. Whether he/she is a pastor/singer most people will want to associate with him/her and hence you will also gain the celebrity status.

Loving

If the artiste is deep in the word of GOD you will without a doubt find love in him/her as Love is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirits which comes from GOD.

Prayer and Fasting

You will be praying and fasting most of the time as everything he/she does needs prayer be it music/mission.

Caring

A gospel singer in the word will be caring, as that’s what ministry is all about.

Being Called To Minister With Them

One of the greatest parts is that at times you will be following/accompanying them as he/she goes for ministry or goes to receive their awards.

Overcoming Temptations

It will be easier to overcome temptations as always you will be checking what the people will say on how to react.

Disadvantages/Cons

Media

The biggest shadow you will ever have in your life is the media. You can never escape the media as they will  be following every move you make looking at the fact that you are close to the artiste.

If you are planning to date one/are dating one you need to plan for the backlash of media.

Celebrity

You Are celebrity already once you start attending church service with them or walking in public with them. How will you respond to this ? Can you handle the questions being asked by people every time you meet in the streets ?

Left Alone Walking

This always happens when you are walking in public and people stop the artiste/minister on the road to say hi to him/her. After that you are always left alone as you wait for her/him to finish signing the autographs. Look into that as you will be left waiting in most of the times.

Home Alone And Less Social

Most probably you will be left home alone most of the times if you are married together as most of the time he/she will be travelling for missions or performances.

You might at times also stop being social with most friends as you don’t want your “private life” go public

High Cost Of Living

Cost of living will high on your side as you will always be trying to dress to please or eat at a place that will not tarnish your name.